I read somewhere on travel.stackexchange that one of the things to do to learn about someone's culture is asking them what their mom used to cook for breakfast. I can't find the link right now.
A much better thing to ask is to ask what a person's culture is obsessive about. For example,
A much better thing to ask is to ask what a person's culture is obsessive about. For example,
- Easter Islanders obsessed about building big stone bodies.
- The Yapese obsessed about stone money.
- The Indo-Aryans were obsessed about cows.
- Central Asian tribes in the times of Changez Khan were obsessed with raiding India, China and Persia.
- Present urban folk in any place are obsessed about vacations :-)
These are just examples. Presently, in the post-modern age of specialization, people are too varied to have cultural obsessions. But this is not entirely true. Abscence of evidence is not evidence of abscence.
That said, if you ever ask someone about any obsession of their culture, make sure you do that tactfully.
lol what, big stone body building isn't acceptable to ask lol
ReplyDeleteSomeone told me in the end, the Easter Islanders had to get to eating mice just to stay alive.
DeleteHow about some people obsessed with taking money from your pocket into their pocket without doing anything?
ReplyDeleteYou are a citizen of the world, SG.
Deletehaha! good post! most Indians, I think, are obsessed about getting freebies with purchases or free lunches here and there!
ReplyDeleteI don't want freebies with purchases, only freebies.
DeleteLOL. If you leave it up to breakfast then all we eat is the quick American cereal and milk on the run.
ReplyDeleteI think this quick breakfast, or no breakfast at all is a worldwide phenomenon.
DeleteNow a days it seems people I know are obsessed with the strangest things. There used to be a tv show back in 2009 called Obsessed. It didn't last long but it goes to show that there are so many people obsessed with something that they thought they could make a tv show out of it.
ReplyDeleteAs for breakfast...my mom fed us cereal..and I still eat cold cereal for breakfast.
In the end, we are all obsessed. Even biologically and psychologically.
DeleteMy mom made us hot rotis/paranthas with veggies/curd etc. mostly.
My Culture is too Cultural. :D
ReplyDeleteIt would take someone from our culture to understand what you just said :-)
DeleteHere's an interesting one. Many people in the UK, and in fact I think in other countries are obsessed by so called "famous personalities" who often have little or no actual desrved merit to their fame.
ReplyDeleteYes, this is true. This is what Weber calls Leadership by Charisma. Do read about Christopher Columbus if you can.
DeleteInteresting take. Good post.
ReplyDeleteThanks :-)
DeleteEven god can't bless pricks :-)
ReplyDeleteThe breakfast question could be very interesting. Every Sunday (when I lived at home) my mom made scrambled eggs, bacon, and biscuits with gravy *drool*
ReplyDeleteWhen I stayed in France I had toast with real jam (none of that smuckers stuff), some fruit, yogurt, and a mug of hot cocoa every morning.
It's not a huge jump, but interesting none the less :)
I hope you had something different at least on some days.
DeleteNice observation about breakfast:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Rahul ji.
Deletehahhahah but for us, our culture itself has many cultures, what can we possibly talk about :P ...
ReplyDeleteLots of things, most are serious and LoL-able at the same time:
Delete- everybody wanting a state for themselves
- everybody wanting to kick 'outsiders' out of their states
- everybody criticizing everybody else (but I read they like the blame game in other countries too)
- everybody making fun of all other cultures
..... the list is probably endless :-)
My parents just make coffee in the morning. I don't like coffee, so I didn't have some breakfast. Now I live alone and I eat bread or fruits.
ReplyDeleteTalking about culture... In my state people eat a lot of black beans and barbecue. I don't like barbecue. But people here say if you don't eat black beans and meat, you'll die from lack of nutrients. And when I say, for example "Grandmother, in other regions people don't eat black beans and barbecue" and she always says "So, they will die". Can you imagine?
Great post!!!
ReplyDeleteXOXO!
I can't imagine how Americans can eat eggs and bacon for breakfast. Eggs and bacon are very heavy food, I think I couldn't eat both at the same time in any meal... I usually just drink a juice in the morning!
ReplyDeleteVery interesting. Indians as travelers are renowned/infamous for talking loudly, jumping queues, dirtying restrooms. On one vacation, the Indian group monopolized the breakfast room to the extent that that next day we were shifted entirely to another dining room.
ReplyDeleteIt was very insulting. It reminded me of 'Indians and dogs not allowed.'
But 'culture' can get caricatured. Like we are still the land of snake charmers to many people.