Friday, October 21, 2016

Want some water? Or tea?

As children, we were taught to always offer water to anyone who comes to our home. Guests, friends, delivery persons, electricians, plumbers and so on and so forth.

My parents, especially my mother spent a lot of time and effort on this.

Now, one of my coworkers pointed out the other day that I was always asking people who came to our end of the office if they needed water to drink, or if they could spare a moment for some tea.  Some others too have noticed this. Since I have a rather sensitive bladder myself, I sometimes point visitors from outside the office to the toilet, albeit discreetly.

I am hoping that my coworker was not criticising me, and that she was not being sarcastic.  One of the lessons I have learnt in my quarter of a century in this world is that everything  is to be considered a compliment unless specified otherwise.

I haven't thanked my coworker for the compliment. Not yet.

But I did call my mother and told her this. After all, she started it. Even though I was neutral on the observation vs. compliment thing, she was happy. Or as happy as you can percieve someone to be on the phone.

I don't know why I wrote this post. Most likely because I have not written since some time.

Also, no idea why, I try not to start sentences with "I", but more often than not, this is what I end up doing. Hard to keep oneself happy all the time. Sufficiently satisfied is better than full on happiness. Or maybe ignorance is bliss. "I" will never know :-)

15 comments:

  1. Ignorance can be bliss in some cases, but then again, sometimes better to know. I never offer anyone water, maybe that is why they stay away lol

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  2. Your mom has raised a wonderful son. You are a prime example of Indian hospitality.

    Do not worry about starting a sentence with “I”. Here is a joke for you. Two new students met at a university. One guy asked the other “Where you are from?”. The other guy replied: I am from a place where we do not end a sentence with a preposition. The first guy, realizing he made a grammar mistake, said: I am sorry. I will rephrase the question. Where you are from, idiot?”

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    1. "I" thank you SG for your compliment and assurance regarding the "I".

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  3. Well, I usually start my sentences with "well" followed by "I". How's that for a tip? I always ask people if they would like something to drink. If it's water they want, that's what they get. If it's bourbon, heck why not.

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    1. That is a great tip and a great example to go with it. I too should have thought of asking if someone needs something to drink rather than just plain water.

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    2. I only have water and milk right now. And some oranges that can processed for juice.

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  4. I just complied with your request. Please read my new post.

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  5. I do not offer anyone tea at my office. I don't want people talking to me aimlessly while they sip tea. That's rude, i know lol. But yea water is good.

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    1. Sometimes you have to be rude to be able to focus.

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  6. I completely understand and can relate to this post so much. I always offer people water or something to drink in general when they come to my door. I keep cold bottles of water in my refrigerator during the summer months because it's so hot here and I offer them to the mailman, or any delivery people who come to the door.

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